Being in love is never easy but it surely has its undeniable benefits! However, it is even more complicated to go steady. Any romance faces the challenges of real life. How can you tell your boyfriend is not excited about being together with you anymore? Of course, you can feel with your heart and your soul that he is unhappy. In this case, it’s still possible to eliminate the reasons of the discomfort and save your relationship. But sometimes, it can be tricky to notice the signs that he finds your relationship doomed. You can be in a seemingly perfect relationship, but under the surface he is ready to launch a dozen missiles and blow your relationship to smithereens. Here are five clues that your boyfriend is stuck in a forms of relationship dysfunction that pushes him into separation. If you notice these indications, you’ve got to ask for a check-in before things get out of control.
You Spend Less Time Together
When your boyfriend is discontent, he might start changing his habits, as well as the amount of time he spends with you. Does he play PlayStation more frequently than watched the TV show both of you used to love so much? Is he hanging out more with his buddies that with you? It is high time to talk about this and nip the problem in the bud.
He Spends A Lot Of Time Away From You
Of course, your partner might be planning a surprise party when he starts spending more time away from you. However, in most cases, this happens because he’s just not happy when he’s with you.
He Has Nothing To Say To You
When it happens for the first time, you might think, ‘How amazing that he can be so quiet and non-communicative with me.’ Soon, every time a tumbleweed tumbles between you and him, you’ll realize how your love is slowly dying. Being unhappy indifferent sets the ground for a break up. Just because you’re not arguing all the time doesn’t mean that your relationship is clear of stormy weather. This is why you need to take notice when your partner is getting distant.
He Doesn’t Want To Hear You Out
When instead of discussing your relationship issues, he says that you’ve been through this a millions times before, it means you’re on the brink of disaster. A trending inability to communicate is a sure sign that your partner is unhappy in your relationship. We all have mood swings, but ‘trending’ means this has been going on for days and weeks.
He Became A Short Fuse
If you notice him getting impatient and rough, this can be a sign your partner isn’t happy with your compatibility. Short fuses are very common when people are discontent in relationships. When your partner is getting cranky at the smallest thing, it is also a clue that he is likely miserable in your relationship. Being fussy means expressing their discontent without saying anything directly.